Using pronouns like they/them or ze/zir doesn't mean that one necessarily identifies as nonbinary; some people who use they/them pronouns are agender, some are Two Spirit, and some are cis men and women. It's all about personal identity. Ze/zir pronouns: "Ze is a writer and wrote that book zirself. Those ideas are zirs. I like both zir and zir ideas.". Pronunciation: Please note that "ze" is usually pronounced with a long "e" and that "hir" and its forms are usually pronounced like the English word "here.". hgWCRe.